Let the Rabbit Run: Focus on Strengths, Not Weaknesses

Let the Rabbit Run. Image generated by AI

As we begin the new year, I want to share a story that challenges how we think about growth. Too often, we push people to "fix" their weaknesses instead of helping them excel at what they naturally do best. This parable from “Soar with Your Strengths” by Donald O. Clifton and Paula Nelson is a reminder: - Play to your strengths, don’t fight your limits. - Maximize your gifts, minimize your gaps. Imagine a world where we build teams, schools, and careers that focus on strengths instead of forcing people into boxes they don’t fit. What could we achieve?

Read the full story below. What’s one strength you’re focusing on this year?

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Imagine there is a meadow. In that meadow, there is a duck, a fish, an eagle, an owl, a squirrel, and a rabbit. They decide they want to have a school so they can be smart, just like people. With the help of some grown-up animals, they come up with a curriculum they believe will make a well-rounded animal: running, swimming, tree climbing, jumping, and flying.

On the first day of school, little br’er rabbit combed his ears and hopped off to his running class. There he was a star. He ran to the top of the hill and back as fast as he could go, and, oh, did it feel good. He said to himself, “I can’t believe it. At school, I get to do what I do best.”

The instructor said, “Rabbit, you really have talent for running. You have great muscles in your rear legs. With some training, you will get more out of every hop.” The rabbit said, “I love school. I get to do what I like to do and get to learn to do it better.”

The next class was swimming. When the rabbit smelled the chlorine, he said, “Wait, wait! Rabbits don’t like to swim.” The instructor said, “Well, you may not like it now, but five years from now, you’ll know it was a good thing for you.”

In the tree-climbing class, a tree trunk was set at a 30-degree angle, so all the animals had a chance to succeed. The little rabbit tried so hard, he hurt his leg. In jumping class, the rabbit got along just fine. But in flying class, he had a problem. So, the teacher gave him a psychological test and discovered he belonged in remedial flying.

In remedial flying class, the rabbit had to practice jumping off a cliff. They told him if he’d just worked hard enough, he could succeed. The next morning, he went on to swimming class. The instructor said, “Today, we jump in the water.”

“Wait, wait,” the rabbit said. “I talked to my parents about swimming. They didn’t learn to swim. We don’t like to get wet. I’d like to drop this course.” The instructor replied, “You can’t drop it. The drop-and-add period is over. At this point, you have a choice. Either you jump in, or you flunk.”

The rabbit jumped in. He panicked! He went down once, he went down twice, and bubbles came up. The instructor saw he was drowning and pulled him out. The other animals had never seen anything quite so funny as this wet rabbit, who looked more like a rat without a tail. They chirped, jumped, barked, and laughed at the rabbit.

The rabbit was more humiliated than he had ever been in his life. He wanted to get out of class that day. He was glad when it was over.

He thought that he would head home, that his parents would understand and help him. When he arrived, he said to his parents, “I don’t like school. I just want to be free.”

“If the rabbits are going to get ahead, you have to get a diploma,” replied his parents.

The rabbit said, “I don’t want a diploma.”

The parents said, “You’re going to get a diploma whether you want one or not.” They argued, and finally, the parents made the rabbit go to bed.

In the morning, the rabbit headed off to school with a slow hop. Then he remembered the principal had said that any time he had a problem, to remember that the counselor’s door is always open. When he arrived at school, he hopped up in the chair by the counselor’s door and said, “I don’t like school!”

The counselor said, “Mmmm, tell me about it.” And the rabbit did. The counselor said, “Rabbit, I hear you. I hear you saying you don’t like school because you don’t like swimming. I think I have diagnosed that correctly. Rabbit, I tell you what we’ll do. You’re doing just fine in running. I don’t know why you need to work on running. What you need to work on is swimming. I’ll arrange it so you don’t have to go to running anymore and you can have two periods of swimming.”

When the rabbit heard that, he just threw up!

As the rabbit hopped out of the counselor’s office, he looked up and saw his old friend, the Wise Old Owl, who cocked his head and said, “Br’er rabbit, life doesn’t have to be that way. We could have schools and businesses where people are allowed to concentrate on what they do well.”

Br’er rabbit was inspired. He thought when he graduated, he would start a business where the rabbits would do nothing but run, the squirrels could just climb trees, and the fish could just swim. As he disappeared into the meadow, he sighed softly to himself and said, “Oh, what a great place that would be.”